Finding out our why is so important. Why do you over eat? Why do you drink so much? Why do you feel like you NEED a man/woman? Why do you want a whole box of donuts? Why do you spend money you don’t have ? Why do you feel like you’re not worthy? Why do … More What is your WHY.
“You will never lose weight.” “You can’t stay sober.” “You’re nothing but a failure.” “You will never be a good mom or wife.” These are SOME of the many things that people have expressed to me. I know I lived a crazy life, I know I was heading in the wrong direction but sheesh! I’m … More Actually, I can.
It’s no secret that I struggle with food. All I crave is sugar, carbs, sugar, and more carbs. Am I really in recovery when I am binging on food? 8 months into sobriety and I am very proud of myself for doing this sobriety thing all over again. Is it hard? absolutely! Is it even … More Sugar in Recovery.
Sometimes, I get nervous. How much is too much to share on social media? I don’t really know if anyone I know personally reads my blog. I do know that sometimes I want to hold back because I have no idea who’s reading. Then again, I know I’m not the only that struggles. In a … More Own your truth.
What do you do when you want to go celebrate the holiday? What do you do when you want to get drunk knowing that wouldn’t be the best thing to do? What do you do when you want to run back to that ex that is no good for you? What do you do when … More What do you do?
The weather is getting nice in Jersey which means a lot of things are going on. The only problem is that I think I really want to go to these events until it’s time to go to them. One of my high school friends is moving to another state and she’s having her going away … More Social anxiety.
At times, I catch myself complaining about things that don’t even matter. I woke up today, I’m breathing, I have a place to live, yet, I find myself being upset about not being where I want to be. I am constantly working on myself and I have made progress. I know I have to trust … More Blessed.
The stigma that comes with getting sober can be very overwhelming at times. Overwhelming because a lot of people do not understand you. In an era where unlimited information is at our fingertips some people still refuse to learn about something they know nothing about. Sobriety is a tough journey, you realize very fast that you … More No, I can’t cut back on my drinking.
I never believed in myself. These past 4 months have been very different, something I have never experienced before. I have never been this spiritually connected to God and I must say that I wouldn’t trade it for nothing in the world. The peace I feel, the contentment I feel is indescribable. I still have … More Believe.